3 girls and a boy!

Hey folks, been working on this blog for about a month now, still have not published anything because i am trying to get it just right. This is a personal blog, just about me(the boy) and my 3 girls ?(my lovely wife and 2 beautiful little girls). This blog will be filled with lots of pictures of the family doing what we love to do.

A little about the family first...

Me.... I am 43 years old, work in the service industry for 20+ years. I also have worked in the entertainment industry on the "house music" trend for 15 or so years.  I enjoy reading most of all and i have read thousands upon thousands of books in my life. I love nature and anything to do with it. I am also a huge music fan, of many different styles, i have one of the most massive amounts of rare music that i have ever known anyone to have.

Wife.... She is 33 years young( 34 in june ), and as beautiful as the day i picked her up for our first date 16 years ago(which is a story in itself lol). She also loves music and nature. She is a homemaker and home schools our two little girls. The most impressive woman i have ever had the pleasure of knowing although i dont always tell her so. She has a love for the springs and the beach, not to mention animals. We have a mini zoo in our house and have owned most domestic animals at one time or another. Although we have been together 16 years, we have been married for 9. She is without a doubt the glue that holds our family together. Smart, good looking, a caring and forgiving soul. Of course she has her days, but dont all women? lol. In that aspect, dont all men as well?

Oldest...... She is 10 and smart as a whip thanks to her mother. A lover of nature and animals, and a very caring heart. Before she was born i thought for sure i wanted a boy, after i saw her i never wanted a boy again. She is as perfect as perfect can get, polite, well mannered and helpful to SOME degree...but are not all kids less helpful these days? She has a good understanding of what is going on around her because of the bond she shares with her mother and the knowledge her mother is passing on to her. I can not not wait to see what life has in store for this curious little one.

Youngest..... well we named her right because she is the firecracker of the bunch. Big heart and eyes that just melt you but a temper that me and her mother can not figure out where it comes from lol. Of course like the rest, she enjoys the springs and nature. Not yet in school per say but learning is something that is on going in our home. Just a daddy's girl she is and a smile that makes me want to love her more then i already do, which is impossible.


This is our family, not always a happy family, but a very satisfied with life family none the less. A better understanding of the things in life can help to negate some of the trouble that most go thru. We are not consumers like most families, we put our money and time into going to places to enjoy ourselves and not in 60 inch tvs to get sucked into. Of course we all find that we struggle with spending the right amount of time doing the things we need compared to the things we want. The thing is to not give up, to keep trying to make it right.

In that aspect, more people would do well to work on problems instead of just giving up, however in todays society it is much easier to just give up and start over. I can not fathom that, i can not understand how one could so willingly give up their family because things are tough. My family is my life, there is no one anywhere in the world i could ever love as much as them, my wife and my kids are part of who i am today. Without them i am nobody, with them i am the most unstoppable force in the world. Every man or woman needs someone behind them to help guide, to offer advice and love. Someone to give a different perspective. My wife sometimes asks if i would not be more happy with someone who thinks like i do, and personally i think there could be nothing worse. Even though she might not realize it, i value her different opinion as a way to make sure i am seeing things clearly.

As most know, men are not always forthcoming with their emotions, i for one are terrible at displaying emotions and feelings. Not sure why, but im sure it has something to do with my beliefs on how a man should be, as passed on to most men from the society norms of our time.

I made this blog with the intention of showing my support, love and honor to my family, of who, with out them i would surely be less of a man then i am today.


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